How to Become a Sugar Baby – Tips, Sites, and Essential Advice

Are you open for a relationship? Do you want to try something new? Are you interested in a relationship with an experienced, successful gentleman who would want to make you happier and know how to do it? Well, then you’re ready to become a sugar baby.

Here, you’ll learn how to be a sugar baby, what website to use, and what are the benefits of such a relationship for you.

Best Sites

First, let’s talk about the best websites where you can find millions of sugar daddies. You don’t want to waste your time on low-quality dating apps with bots and fake profiles, right?

Secret Benefits

SecretBenefits is a reputable and popular dating app which is free for sugar babies. With more than 8,400,000 monthly visits, SecretBenefits surely has one of the largest user bases in the industry, and the quality of profiles here is also pretty good—what’s more, most of them are verified by video. You’ll probably upload a verification video, too, and our recommendation is to look your best while recording it because these videos are actually not private, they’re available to anyone who visits your profile. The site has several messaging tools, a convenient live chat, and a lot of search filters (but not all of them are free). 

Ashley Madison

AshleyMadison has more than 70 million users—but it’s obvious that not all of them are sugar babies and sugar daddies/mommas because the main idea of this site is to help people find an affair, not a sugar partner. It’s free for women so it’s perfect for sugar babies—here, you’ll be able to chat with daddies without any purchases. However, it’s still recommended to update a membership type on AM because those with a premium account get more views, more messages, and their profiles are highlighted in the search results. The only problem with this platform is that according to our estimation, only 10% of users (or around that number) are interested in a sugar relationship. 

SugarDaddy.com

Sugardaddy.com has several free features—for example, you can write in your blog, upload secret photos, and of course edit your profile for free. But any user who wants to use the communication tools needs to buy credits first (there are three packages available, from $59 to $290). Premium users can send messages, their profiles are highlighted in the search results, and their messages are boosted (=highlighted) in the inbox. There’s a video verification here but be careful: this site has the same issue as Secret Benefits; your verification video will be available to any user. The website looks nice, it’s well-optimized, and it offers a standard set of “sugar dating” features such as profile highlighting, secret albums, secret browsing, etc. Unfortunately, there’s no welcome bonus for free users here.

Guide

Now, let’s see how you can become a real sugar baby, enter a relationship, and start making money and getting other pleasant surprises.

• First, make sure you’re 100% ok with that kind of relationship. In the absolute majority of cases, being a sugar baby includes having sex with your sugar daddy—you’ll probably find a lot of guides that would say that you can do it online only, but that’s not how it works. Sugar relationships will not lead to anything serious so falling in love is not recommended—are you ready for that, too? Think about it twice.
• Then, find a sugar dating website. You can spend some time and do your own research or you can just pick one of those three platforms you saw earlier on this page. They’re the best you can find.
• Third, create a profile there. As you probably noticed, the sugar babies to sugar daddies ratio on dating websites is around 5 to 1 which means you will have at least 4 competitors. Your goal is to overtake them on this road, and to achieve it, your profile must look gorgeous—so upload your best photos (a professional photoshoot isn’t the worst idea), answer all the questions when creating a profile, and write a bio that would be catchy and clear.
• Then, search for sugar daddies and start chatting with them. You don’t send those pick up lines to them, that’s not how it works with sugar daddies. You need to analyze the profile and pay attention to the hobbies and interests of a SD in order to write a personalized message. 
• Don’t delay the first date. If a sugar daddy constantly cancels and delays a date, it’s a red flag and he’s probably a “salt daddy”, a man who pretends to be a SD but doesn’t want to pay. 
• Enjoy your new life. It’s going to be fun, interesting, and very profitable!

Sugar Baby rules

Sugar dating is not about fixed, hard-and-fast rules. However, there are a few important things you need to understand in order to not make a mistake.

• Meet in a public place. Your safety is top priority, so if a sugar daddy wants to have the first date at his place, something is wrong here.
• Remember that if you feel something is wrong, it’s 100% wrong. Whether it’s your intuition or your gut instinct, you should never ignore it when it comes to sugar dating. 
• PPM (pay per meeting) until you trust each other. That’s a risk-free option that works perfectly both for a daddy and for a baby.
• Do not make a sugar daddy pay before your first sleep together. Yes, it would be nice to get the money before that, but a lot of sugar daddies think that it’s a red flag and believe that if they pay a sugar baby before sex, she’ll take the money and leave forever. 
• Discuss everything in advance. You must establish boundaries, you must discuss the expectations openly, and you must also discuss financial arrangements in order to avoid misunderstanding. Yes, discussing the allowance in advance will feel weird at first, but you’ll get used to it.
• If he doesn’t pay, he’s a “salt” daddy. Don’t waste your time on him. If he pays but not as much as you expected and if he generally doesn’t look like a rich and successful man, he’s a “splenda” daddy. Don’t waste your time on him, either.

The Benefits of Becoming a Sugar Baby

• It’s profitable. 6 years ago, the average sugar baby’s allowance made $2,800 monthly. Obviously, today, the number is higher. If it’s a PPM system, you can expect $500-$1,000 per meeting. 
• It’s not only about money, it’s also about experience. Sugar daddies are successful men who know how the world works, and even a little piece of their experience will make your life much easier.
• It’s exciting! Even if you’re in a sugar relationship for once and no more, it’s the kind of experience you will never forget. Business trips, banquets, vacations, luxury shopping, the feeling of being spoiled by a powerful and successful man—well, that’s something you have to try at least once.

Conclusion

Don’t waste your time reading the guides. You already know the basic rules so you won’t screw up. Choose a site, join it, and begin your journey to a new, better life—it’s not that easy to be a sugar baby but trust us, it’s 100% worth it! 

Anne Monroe